Jealousy disease that kills sexuality

At first cause laughter. Men and women, new lovers, funny consider your partner's cele. "I want to" think "However, jealousy can become a disease, a free torment and who suffers an uncomfortable heaviness for who is the object-possession, ie that jealous.

What is jealousy?

Wikipedia explains: " Jealousy is an emotional response that occurs when a person perceives a threat to something he considers himself Commonly known well to suspicion or concern about the possibility that the beloved attention in favor of another.. It is also well known, the feeling of envy toward success or possession of another person "

All we ever been jealous, are normal in small doses. The problem is that jealousy Cando become disease. The disease of jealousy has no name and is called jealousy.

"The jealousy is a kind of paranoia, obsession gnawing who suffers along with the fear of being replaced by another, suspecting alienated the couple is cheating," Ochoa said.

Usually when you have jealousy there is "reason" or reason. Probably the couple was already cheating before or has a bad reputation and that can be a cause that triggers jealousy. The person can be controlled and coldly analyze whether jealousy are right or not. However, when there is jealousy useless demonstrations to calm the other jealous. There is sickening suspicion, it is a disease state that can upset the individual.

"The jealous sick or ill will in every gesture another confirmation of her fears: because he came home late, because he arrived early to dissimilar because he is sad and absent because he is too nice hiding something" tells Anabel Ochoa.

The celotípico is compulsive and obsessive search for the track to confirm his delusions. "Inquires into the pockets to find details in the body of your partner to find brands, clothing, gestures and reactions to answer the phone".

Life becomes a hell, never gets calm because paranoia makes fantasies that are only in the mind and relentlessly pursue the jealous.


What causes jealousy?

There are many reasons why a person can trigger unhealthy zeal. Some of them are:

• The jealous afraid to be replaced, there is panic replacement.
• The jealous has low self-esteem, suspected not deserve the love of your partner, afraid of being less than anyone.
• The jealous anguish have pain , you want to anticipate the pain that will cause infidelity and paradoxically causes much suffering.
• He's jealous damaged since childhood, has an insatiable imbalance is never quiet.
• You may have seen cheating on their parents, what their world collapsed and caused him severe trauma.

What cope with jealousy?

Jealousy in a compulsive obsessive disease must be approached with conductive multifactorial psychological therapy, couples therapy and group therapy. Like other emotional problems the first step is to accept that you have the disease, as well as some other recommendations:

Identify the emotion of jealousy

Detect why jealousy personally (separate your partner and look at you, why are you jealous) feel
Resolve the cause of jealousy, talk about that in therapy and couples.
Bear the consequences of jealousy in others and detect how damaged your surroundings .
Learn from your jealousy, talk about them and confront them with your feelings.